The perfect person for you is actually not perfect in anyway, but someone who sees their imperfection and embraces the grace of God in their life. You love each other because you both love a perfect God who is actively working in your lives. Your relationship may not be perfect or what you had planned, but those who come together in Jesus will find that His plan for you is good, pleasing, and perfect.
Communicate: Talk about things, the good and bad. Build trusts. Be honest. Be faithful. Be there for one another. Make time for one another. Leave the past to the past, which include ex’s. Know that having arguments are normal. Know that you won’t always be happy. Don’t expect change. Appreciate the flaws. Appreciate each other. Become best friends. Lastly, love each other unconditionally.